How To Make Your Partner a Priority

How to Prioritize Your Partner

One difficulty that many couples find in their relationship is they do not feel like they are a priority to their partner. 

They may not feel they are heard, others come before them, their partner is not interested, and more. 

So here are twenty things that you can do to make your partner feel like a priority.  

  1. Keep in touch throughout the day (phone, text).

  2. Communicate instead of just reacting.  Explain your feelings.

  3. Compromise on when and how often you have sex.

  4. Show your partner appreciation.

  5. Increase physical touch.

  6. Share a hobby or try something new together.

  7. Google “Questions to Ask My Partner” and learn something new about them.

  8. Do something unexpected for them.

  9. Learn what their Love Language is and make sure you meet it daily.

  10. Avoid being defensive when your partner talks about a problem and listen instead.

  11. ‘Focus on the solution instead of the problem.

  12. Schedule Couple’s Time.

  13. Avoid “but”s.

  14. Create a daily ritual.  Try having coffee together.

  15. Step outside your comfort zone for your partner.

  16. Give them your undivided attention when they are speaking to you.

  17.  Have a weekly “Check In” meeting.

  18. Avoid getting defensive or making a counter-attack.

  19. Show them courtesy and respect.

  20. Put your partner first.

If you do not prioritize your partner and your relationship you might not have it in the future.  




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