SPICE IT UP
Things can get a little routine in the bedroom. Spicing things up with trying new things can be helpful for the relationship
The following books can be very helpful. They have sealed sections for him and her. Inside, are things you can do for your partner to spice things up. It is a big help for those of us that are not creative. Both are by Laura Corn.
101 Nights of Great Sex
101 Nights of Great Romance
There are the expected things when this subject comes up such as changing positions, new lingerie, etc. The following are some things you may not have thought of before.
Change the time. Many couples choose evenings to have sex. That could be a problem. By the end of the day you may be tired, or stressed from work. Instead, try the afternoon or morning.
Change the place. Do not be stuck to the bed and bedroom.
Share your fantasies with your partner
Add more time to your foreplay
Change who initiates
Shop for new sex toys together.
Have a date night
Change the order of things. Maybe not even have penetration. Make out instead.
Start and end with “foreplay.”
Masturbate in front of each other
Watch sexy videos together or read an erotic story
Change your roles. If one of you is usually dominant/submissive, switch it.
Just touch without the goal of orgasm
Be playful/have fun inside and outside of the bedroom
And of course, try a couple new positions
Karen Baum MA, LPCC-S WWW.SavingGraceTC.com 419.277.4355